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Dar uma colher de chá

Portuguese

Meaning

To cut someone some slack / To give a break

Example

Professor, me dá uma colher de chá, eu estudei muito mas fiquei nervoso na prova!

Professor, cut me some slack, I studied a lot but got nervous during the test!

Origin

The image comes from old sickroom care: tea was thought to be a gentle, restorative drink, so it was fed to the ill and the recovering one small spoonful at a time. To "give someone a teaspoon of tea" (dar uma colher de chá) therefore meant to ease the way for someone who was struggling.