A2 (Elementary)Lesson 6: Demonstratives, Possessives & Weather
English is hungry, cold and scared with adjectives. Portuguese carries those states around as nouns, which means they need ter or estar com — Tenho fome, Estou com frio, Estou com medo. Ter states the fact, estar com pins it to right now, and ficar com marks the moment it starts.
These states are nouns in Portuguese, so they need a verb of having: ter or estar com — never ser, never a bare estar.
ter + noun = the standing fact: Ela tem medo de avião. (She's afraid of flying.)
estar com + noun = right now, this moment: Estou com fome. (I'm hungry.) This is the one Brazilians say most for the body's states.
ficar com + noun = getting into the state: Fiquei com fome depois do treino. (I got hungry after training.)
The word for "a lot" agrees with the noun: muita fome, muito frio.
estar com + a thing means you have it on you: Está com você? (Do you have it?)
Estou quente is not about the weather — say Estou com calor for yourself and Está calor for the air.
ter + noun (the standing fact) · estar com + noun (right now) · ficar com + noun (getting into it) — fome, sede, sono, frio, calor, medo, pressa, dor…
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This is the sentence you will need on day one and every day after: you are hungry, cold, in a hurry, in pain. Translate any of those word for word and you produce something that is not merely wrong but occasionally comic — Eu sou fome, Estou quente. Getting the pattern also unlocks a whole family at once, because the same frame carries fear, luck, jealousy, embarrassment, fever and homesickness. And the ter / estar com pair gives you a distinction English has no clean way to make: whether you are describing who someone is, or what is happening to them at this moment.
English says I am hungry — the state is an adjective, and you simply are it. Portuguese has no adjective sitting in that slot. It has a noun: a fome (hunger). You cannot be a noun, so the language reaches for a verb of having instead. The same is true of o frio (cold), o medo (fear), a pressa (hurry) and a dor (pain).
That single fact explains everything else on this page. Because these words are nouns:
they take ter ("to have") or estar com ("to be with") — never ser, and never a bare estar;
they have a gender, so the word for "a lot" has to agree with them: muita fome, muito frio;
they can be sized and described like any other noun: uma fome danada (a monstrous hunger).
So the two sentences you actually need are:
| Portuguese | Meaning |
|---|---|
| Estou com sono, vou dormir cedo hoje. | I'm sleepy — I'm going to bed early today. |
| Que sede! Você tem água aí? | So thirsty! Do you have water there? |
| Ele está com febre desde ontem. | He's had a fever since yesterday. |
| Tenho muita sorte de morar aqui. | I'm very lucky to live here. |
| Você tem razão, a culpa foi minha. | You're right, it was my fault. |
| Fiquei com raiva e não respondi nada. | I got angry and didn't answer at all. |
| Ela está com ciúmes do irmão mais novo. | She's jealous of her younger brother. |
| Estou com saudade da minha avó. | I miss my grandmother. |
Never Eu sou fome. Fome is a noun, and you can no more be it than you can "be hunger" in English. ✅ Estou com fome. / Tenho fome. (I'm hungry.)
Don't drop the com. ❌ Estou fome → ✅ Estou com fome. (I'm hungry.) The com is the piece that lets the verb take a noun; without it the sentence collapses.
Watch out for Estou quente and Estou frio. About a person those do not describe the temperature: quente lands as "turned on" and frio as cold-hearted. For your own body say ✅ Estou com calor. (I'm hot.) / ✅ Estou com frio. (I'm cold.) The air is a different matter — Está calor hoje. (It's hot today.) is perfect. The same trap catches excitado, which is not "excited": for that, ✅ Estou animado. (I'm excited.)
The intensifier agrees with the noun. ❌ muito fome → ✅ Estou com muita fome. (I'm very hungry.) Fome is feminine, so muita; frio is masculine, so muito frio.
Being right belongs to ter. ❌ Você está com razão → ✅ Você tem razão. (You're right.) Same for ter certeza.
Leave faminto to novels. It is a real word, but it is dramatic — closer to "famished". In conversation ✅ Estou morrendo de fome. (I'm starving.) is what people actually say.
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